to lee, from mike

Ahh, just when I think I couldn’t love my husband any more, he leaves this in the comments.

Hi. I’m Mike, Mona’s husband, and I’m doing fine Trina. It’s very nice of you to ask.

In addition to being a dedicated father, husband, and friend, Lee was also an dedicated devotee of kirida.com – a daily reader in fact – so Lee I know you’re reading this. Sadira is exactly right – this is an extraordinary tribute! Lee, I know you’re digging all the attention! 🙂

Lee genuinely embraced Mona as family from the minute they met. And as for this lovely tribute by my talented wife, I’ll just say that over the years I’ve learned it’s better to celebrate one’s life than to commiserate one’s death. I have a theory that we Americans don’t know how to mourn very well. No one ever really teaches us that, do they? I think Eastern cultures may be better at it. They seem to know how to properly mourn, celebrate, and then move on. Most seem to gain strength and character from the spirit of the deceased and become better people for having known them. They seem to have a better grasp on the cycle of life.

One day in class a few years ago, an Asian student smiled at me and said during a dramatic moment in a class discussion, “Mr. Hickey, death isn’t the end of life, it’s the beginning.” And then her twin sister smiled the same damn smile she was smiling! And don’t ask me how I know this because I really can’t explain it, but when I looked into their four identical eyes, I somehow was convinced in every cell of my DNA that they were absolutely right! It was like a wave of energy and serenity washed over me at the same time. I had this incredibly spiritual feeling all over, and somehow I positively knew they were right. Don’t ask me how. It was very weird.

I feel very fortunate that you had the chance to meet Mona and Nathan – my raison d’etre. I look at your pictures and can’t help thinking about how happy you were on that perfect day last August. Of course, going counterclockwise, there were great times all the way back to 32 years ago at the University of Arizona in those Tucson days Mona refers to, The wild wild west. How we ever ended up as law-abiding, tax-paying citizens and not bank robbers is beyond me.

I was the oldest sibling in my family so i never really had an older brother or sister. You were always the closet, and an exemplary surrogate I must say, an awesome big brother, I thank you for that from the bottom of my heart.

And Lee, as an extremely spiritual person yourself and, as I said, a daily reader of kirida.com, keep dropping in whenever you get the chance and we’ll keep you updated on what’s happening.

Rest in peace, mi amigo (remember those weekend trips to Nogales, Mexico?). I’ll see you on the other side, if there really is an “up there”, save us all a seat, OK?

Here’s a little poem to share with God if you happen to see Him/Her.

Your BFF
Hics

MADALYN MURRAY’ O’HAIR FACES GOD ON JUDGMENT DAY

oh shit,
really?

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Comments

  1. I am glad you are doing ok Mike. The poem put a smile on my face.

  2. I couldn’t very well comment on that post after Mike had, so I’m really glad you started a new post with it. 🙂

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Mike and Mona – and especially to his family. I remember the pictures you took from that wedding and it was just beautiful. He was obviously a radiant person based on them alone. Your tributes to him make me wish I had known him.

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